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to boost moms\u2019 and kids\u2019 well-being<\/span><\/h3>\n

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Mother\u2019s Day is coming up soon, and many will be celebrating moms, grandmothers, and other maternal figures in their lives.<\/p>\n

Whether biological or adoptive, moms have an important hand in shaping our identities and guiding our moral compass throughout our childhoods.<\/p>\n

Although Mother\u2019s Day is an occasion to celebrate mothers, we don\u2019t often hear about the considerable benefits this kind of appreciation can bring moms \u2014 benefits that can trickle down to the entire family.\"\"<\/p>\n

Mothers who feel valued and loved are happier and less stressed. Pic – congress-intercultural.eu<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Based on my research and those of other psychologists, here are some tips for celebrating moms on Mother\u2019s Day, and every day, to enhance well-being for both moms and their loved ones.<\/p>\n

Boost mom\u2019s happiness and lower mom\u2019s stress<\/strong><\/p>\n

Generally, mothers who feel valued and loved are happier and less stressed.<\/p>\n

However, many can face challenges that increase stress and make them feel devalued. Many still contend with a lack of gender parity in the workplace and social pressure to be the perfect mother. In addition, feeling a lack of emotional connection with family members can translate to a lot of day-to-day stress for moms.<\/p>\n

So, what can families do to boost moms\u2019 happiness? Psychology research suggests that Hallmark cards have it right \u2014 building a mother\u2019s confidence by telling them that they\u2019re an amazing mom or that they always know how to make the family feel better can be tremendously effective in enhancing moms\u2019 happiness.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re an adult living far away from your parents, don\u2019t forget to call your mom. Compared to fathers, mothers generally report feeling more emotionally connected to their kids and more strongly identifying as a parent. A phone call or a chat over tea with their kids, no matter the age, can really boost a mom\u2019s happiness.<\/p>\n

Support for mothers isn\u2019t limited to the family. Moms can also benefit from celebrating Mother\u2019s Day with other sources of support, like friends. Instead of limiting Mother\u2019s Day celebrations to a family affair, consider organizing a surprise dinner with mom\u2019s close friends.<\/p>\n

Kids benefit when mom feels happy<\/strong><\/p>\n

The benefits of celebrating moms also trickle down to their kids. Research shows that parents who feel more positive can better support their children\u2019s mental health and social relationships within the family and beyond. For example, my research has found that moms who are less stressed are seen by their adolescent kids as being better at understanding the kids\u2019 perspective.<\/p>\n

Stress can also impact how attentive moms are to their family, which impacts kids\u2019 development. In a recent study, my colleagues and I found that less stressed and more attentive moms can foster their children\u2019s good coping skills by modelling how to effectively manage emotions.<\/p>\n

When mothers feel positive, they have better interactions with their kids and their kids feel better. That means it\u2019s important to send appreciation mom\u2019s way every day, not just on Mother\u2019s Day.<\/p>\n

A day to celebrate grandmothers, too<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget grandma this Mother\u2019s Day! Grandmothers have a bigger impact in shaping who you are than you might think. For example, research has shown that daughters\u2019 and grandmothers\u2019 attachment styles overlap by up to 75 per cent. This means that how you connect with your partner, best friend and kids may even be inherited from your grandma.<\/p>\n

Despite their important role, grandparents often don\u2019t get the appreciation they deserve. Psychologists have found that grandparents often feel more emotionally connected to their grandkids than the other way around. This suggests that for many grandmothers, that phone call or weekend visit can mean a lot more to them than grandkids realize.<\/p>\n

By celebrating Mother\u2019s Day with grandma, she may feel a greater sense of meaning in her family relationships which can improve her general happiness. Grandchildren could even improve their social skills when they have a positive and close relationship with their grandmothers.<\/p>\n

Mothers are the main source of comfort and care for many families around the world, yet it\u2019s easy to take them for granted most days across the year. While brunch and flowers on Mother\u2019s Day is surely appreciated, let\u2019s celebrate moms every day. Helping moms feel happy will help the family feel happy, too.<\/p>\n

Hali Kil<\/span>
\n<\/strong>Assistant Professor,Psychology,
\nSimon Fraser University<\/p>\n

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Mauritius Times ePaper Friday 10 May 2024<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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