{"id":36555,"date":"2023-01-27T14:57:51","date_gmt":"2023-01-27T10:57:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/?p=36555"},"modified":"2023-01-27T14:57:51","modified_gmt":"2023-01-27T10:57:51","slug":"should-we-move-our-loved-one-with-dementia-into-a-nursing-home","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/should-we-move-our-loved-one-with-dementia-into-a-nursing-home\/","title":{"rendered":"Should we move our loved one with dementia into a nursing home?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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The decision to move a loved one with dementia into residential care is an incredibly difficult one. These considerations may help<\/em><\/span><\/h4>\n

\"\"Improving dementia care requires a change in mindset. Pic – PBS NewsHour<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Deciding to move a loved one into a nursing home is an incredibly difficult one. I found it difficult and stressful considering this move for my own loved one, even with 20 years of experience in dementia and aged care. Sometimes the decision has to be made quickly, such as when the person is in hospital. Sometimes the decision takes much longer and is made over months, or even years.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are some important things you should consider when trying to decide the best option for you and your loved one. I\u2019ve outlined five here.<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Your loved ones\u2019 views around going into care<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    We don\u2019t want to force our loved one to do something against their wishes. It\u2019s unusual for someone to want to go into a nursing home. It may take many conversations and a decent amount of time before your loved one accepts they might need more care and that a nursing home is the right place to get that care.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. Your loved one\u2019s current quality of life<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      If your loved one currently has all their needs met at home, perhaps supporting them to stay there is a good option. micheile.com\/unsplash, CC BY<\/span><\/p>\n

      If you think your loved one has an overall good quality of life, and that their quality of life may decrease when they go into a nursing home, this could be a sign you should keep trying to support the person to live at home.<\/span><\/p>\n

      However, if their quality of life is currently poor, particularly if this is due to not having enough day-to-day physical care, health care or emotional support, then moving into a nursing home might help meet their daily needs.<\/span><\/p>\n

      Spend some time observing to figure out how your loved one is doing at home.<\/span><\/p>\n

      You could perhaps make a list of the things they need to lead a good life (company, three square meals, help taking medicines, going out into the community) and see if these are currently being met.<\/span><\/p>\n

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      1. Risks if your loved one stays at home<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        People often go into a nursing home because we think they are no longer safe living at home.<\/span><\/p>\n

        It might be possible to reduce some of the risks of them being at home through modifying the home and using technology (personal emergency alarms, GPS trackers, stove timers) or services (meals on wheels, community care, physiotherapy for mobility).<\/span><\/p>\n

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        1. Capacity of your loved one\u2019s family and friends to keep supporting them<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          The availability and capacity of family carers is probably the most crucial part in supporting someone with dementia to keep living well at home. Carers often have other responsibilities such as work and children, which means they can\u2019t support their loved one as much as they would like.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Being a carer is physically and emotionally demanding, and over time caring can take its toll. Carers should seek help and support from other family and friends, learn more about dementia, use services including respite care and Dementia Australia.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Carers often face a difficult choice between their own health and wellbeing, and supporting their loved one to remain at home. If carers are caring as much as their time, energy and physical and mental wellbeing will allow, and that care is not enough for their loved one\u2019s needs, then more help is needed \u2013 and residential care is one way of getting that help.<\/span><\/p>\n

          Some families choose to move in with the person with dementia, or have them move in with family. This may be an option if there is suitable accommodation, and they are able to live together comfortably.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          1. Availability of quality nursing home care<\/strong><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            It\u2019s emotionally easier to place a loved one in a nursing home if carers are confident the home will provide suitable care. Often, family want a nursing home that is geographically close so they can visit, has a suitable room (such as a single room with an ensuite), sufficient and kind staff with training in supporting people with dementia, a pleasant environment, nutritious appealing food, and quality clinical care.<\/span><\/p>\n

            It takes time to visit and pick a suitable nursing home, check it\u2019s appropriately accredited, and understand how much it will cost. You might have to wait for a bed in a quality home. You can often trial the nursing home by having your loved one stay for two weeks of respite care.<\/span><\/p>\n

            When your loved one enters nursing home care, you\u2019ll still be caring for them. You want to ensure you can continue to support your loved one emotionally and practically in partnership with the nursing home.<\/span><\/p>\n

            Getting help<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

            Usually there is no \u201cright\u201d or \u201cwrong\u201d decision. You might struggle and there might be family conflict around what the \u201cright\u201d decision is.<\/span><\/p>\n

            Speaking to a counsellor might help work through the options and your feelings, you can talk to them as an individual or attend as a family.<\/span><\/p>\n

            Lee-Fay Low<\/span>
            \n<\/strong>Professor in Ageing and Health,
            \nUniversity of Sydney<\/span><\/p>\n

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            Mauritius Times ePaper Friday 27 January 2023<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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