{"id":1864,"date":"2012-09-07T06:30:08","date_gmt":"2012-09-07T06:30:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/2012\/09\/07\/dr-gopee-97\/"},"modified":"2019-09-23T13:51:34","modified_gmt":"2019-09-23T09:51:34","slug":"dr-gopee-97","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/dr-gopee-97\/","title":{"rendered":"We Shall All Leave the World Empty-handed\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Dr R Neerunjun Gopee<\/span><\/strong><\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">From time to time it helps to take a pause, do some deep thinking, and reflect on the thoughts that float into our consciousness. In this process we can do no better than to draw from the wisdom of those who have done so even more profoundly before us, and for our great benefit and joy have left a legacy of their precious contemplations in beautiful sayings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">The authors belong to all parts of the world and come from many walks of life. In India, lyricists of film songs of an earlier era added to this tradition, and many of us who remember those days look back with great nostalgia to the wordings so full of meaning. And nowadays, the miracle of YouTube gives us the opportunity to spend beautiful moments viewing classical clips and listening to the soulful renderings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">From the film <em>Ankush <\/em>(1954), comes this sublime reminder about how we should live our lives in the song that begins with <em>Itni shakti hame dena data\u2026 (Give me that much inner strength O Lord\u2026)<\/em>:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">\u2018Hum na sochein hame kya mila hai, hum ye sochein kiya kya hai arpan<br \/>\nPhool khushiyon ke bantein sabhi ko, sabka jeewan hi banjaye madhuban\u2026\u2019<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">Meaning: May we not only think of what we have received, may we also think of what we have offered; may we share the flower of happiness with all, that everyone\u2019s life becomes as fragrant and beautiful\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">We become attached to our earthly possessions, accumulating endlessly, even resorting to hoarding many a time. Money, fame, power hold us in their dirty grip, even as we forget that when we die, nothing of all this will go with us. And yet, we hardly ever knowingly ponder upon whether and what we have offered in return for the most precious gift of all that we have received: life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">It is a gift of love. So too let us give back with love: not with our hands, but with our hearts. For whatever we offer is not to this world, but to <em>Tat<\/em>: <em>That<\/em> whence we came and will return to, the creative source of all existence, <em>Brahman<\/em>. For <em>Tat Twam Asi <\/em>is the Ultimate Truth\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">It is said of a famous conqueror that when he lay on his deathbed, he requested that both his hands be left out of his coffin with the palms turned upwards, so that everybody could see that despite all his conquests, he would leave the world with his hands empty.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">As all of us will of course do too. But we forget that all these tangible things that we hold on to as being real are an illusion: in the words of Einstein, <em>\u2018<\/em><\/span><em><span lang=\"EN\" style=\"font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN;\">Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one.\u2019<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">The sooner we shed this illusion, the better our lives will be.<\/span> <span lang=\"EN\" style=\"font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial; mso-ansi-language: EN;\">This is possible if we can be as generous as possible \u2013 granted that not everybody can be a Bill Gates or a Warren Buffett. It is a lived experience of many down the ages that the more one gives, the more one receives. In some of our darkest moments, when all hope seems lost, this suddenly manifests as a redeeming light, much more precious than the material given away \u2013 as long as this is done selflessly. As St Francis of Assisi said, <em>\u2018Start by doing what&#8217;s necessary, then what&#8217;s possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible.\u2019<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN\" style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">A complementary saying here would be: \u2018Don&#8217;t judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant,\u2019 by Robert Louis Stevenson, Scottish novelist, poet and essayist. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN\" style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">We can, further, lift ourselves by this meditation titled \u2018Life\u2019 by William Arthur Ward:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial;\">The adventure of life is to learn.<br \/>\nThe purpose of life is to grow.<br \/>\nThe nature of life is to change.<br \/>\nThe challenge of life is to overcome.<br \/>\nThe essence of life is to care.<br \/>\nThe opportunity of life is to serve.<br \/>\nThe secret of life is to dare.<br \/>\nThe spice of life is to befriend.<br \/>\nThe beauty of life is to give.<br \/>\nThe joy of life is to love.<br \/>\nAnd live some beautiful moments for,<br \/>\nLife never seems to be the way we want it,<br \/>\nBut we have to live it the best way we can.<br \/>\nThere is no perfect Life,<br \/>\nBut we can fill it with perfect Moments&#8230;<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"background: white;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; color: #000000;\">What better way to live one\u2019s life than to continuously sow the seeds of the future: for us, for those we love, for humanity.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><em>* Published in print edition on 7 September 2012<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr R Neerunjun Gopee<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":6560,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3113],"tags":[103,176,18779,18778],"class_list":["post-1864","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality","tag-dr-r-neerunjun-gopee","tag-einstein","tag-st-francis-of-assisi","tag-world-empty-handed"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/MT-Logokk.jpg?fit=1200%2C880&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8QzSF-u4","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1864"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1864\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6560"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.mauritiustimes.com\/mt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}